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Wedding Traditions…Where Did They Come From?

Why the term “tie the knot”?
The phrase “tie the knot” goes back to Roman times. Back then, the bride would wear a girdle that was tied in many knots - the groom had the duty of untying them!

Why a ring?
Earlier societies believed that a circle had magical properties. It could, for instance, tie one’s soul to another. Therefore, early brides and grooms would be encircled by a ring of woven grass. Today that circle, the wedding ring, signifies a lasting tie between two people.

Why a best man?
In some societies a would-be groom had to abduct the bride of his choice. To make sure he would not be disturbed while he carried off the love of his life, a good friend accompanied him to fight off anyone who tried to stop them.

Why a wedding cake?
In ancient Rome, the wedding cake was broken atop the bride’s head, one of many fertility rituals performed at weddings. The guests were then allowed to eat the cake.

Why throw rice?
Rice, a grain, is a symbol of fruitfulness. In some parts of the world, the custom of sprinkling brides and grooms is meant to promote productive marriages.

Why something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue?
Something old is to signify continuity, and could be a piece of lace, jewelry, or a handkerchief. Something new signifies optimism for the future, and is often an article of clothing, or the wedding rings. Something borrowed represents happiness, which is often a piece of jewelry or handkerchief from a happily married relative or friend. Something blue signifies fidelity, loyalty, and love. In biblical times blue, not white, symbolized purity. Both the bride and groom wore a band of blue material around the bottom of their wedding attire.